Bullies AND Victims Could Improve Their Problem Solving Skills

Found this excellent article by Dr. Michele Borba with specific suggestions on how to work with children on conflict resolution and problem solving to help them not become bullies or victims. The article includes specific suggestions and techniques.

Teaching Problem Solving to Reduce Bullying

by Michele Borba

How to teach kids problem solving skills. Why doing so can predict and prevent bullying

“Let’s flip a coin to decide.”

“Everybody breathe a minute, then we can take turns.”

“Why don’t we just both think of another choice?”

Parents and teachers have always recognized the benefits of kids learning to work together to solve their problems. After all, using those problem-solving skills is one of the best ways to help kids and teens alike curb sibling wars, friendship tiffs, teammate squabbles, playground battles as well as handle the social jungle.

Problem solving is also a key habit to boost our children’s resilience, self-esteem, peacemaking, social skills, as well as character.

New research by the American Psychological Association reveals another huge plus to teaching kids problem solving: Teaching kids how to solve problems may prevent bullying and reduce children’s chances of being victimized.

- See more at: http://www.micheleborba.com/blog/2010/09/22/problem-solving-to-prevent-bullying/